Thanks for the info 10Point. I have been in touch with an attorney and i'm waiting to hear back from them to see what their thoughts are on this situation.
The stories on here (and in our area first hand) get really old.
I came to work there because I thought it was a highly professional place to work and since that time I've witnessed behavior that I've only seen in bars and street altercations.
Just remember one thing. You have a file. It's reviewed by new management. None of them are your friends no matter what they get you to believe and if it comes down to it you'll be looking at the bottom of the bus, not them, if they can get it done. Standing up for yourself and filing grievances gets you highlighted so expect to watch your back from now on.
Be smart. Do your job impeccably. Watch what you say to everyone at work. Keep your eyes moving. Smile a lot.
I hope you find a better job after your wife graduates. Life is too short to compromise your values in a place that supports and ignores violent actions.