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Brownslave688

You want a toe? I can get you a toe.
I want to ask you guys something. If a friend of your child was in an abusive relationship, and you know the dad, would you tell him what’s going on or stay out of it so your own child isn’t put in the middle of a huge drama scene?
The problem is the person in the relationship has to recognize it and want out. Otherwise anyone else is just spinning their wheels or even making it worse on her.
 

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The problem is the person in the relationship has to recognize it and want out. Otherwise anyone else is just spinning their wheels or even making it worse on her.
That’s what I told my daughter. Tell her how you feel about it then leave it alone. Nothing you can do. The guy is slowly isolating her from everyone, you know standard abusive behavior. He won’t let her go anywhere without him. Doesn’t help that the guy comes from a Muslim household and I’m sure that’s influencing his behavior also.
 

Brownslave688

You want a toe? I can get you a toe.
That’s what I told my daughter. Tell her how you feel about it then leave it alone. Nothing you can do. The guy is slowly isolating her from everyone, you know standard abusive behavior. He won’t let her go anywhere without him. Doesn’t help that the guy comes from a Muslim household and I’m sure that’s influencing his behavior also.
A friend is gonna have lot more luck talking sense into her than a parent but with a first boyfriend it’s gonna be low probability of success.
 

Wally

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I want to ask you guys something. If a friend of your child was in an abusive relationship, and you know the dad, would you tell him what’s going on or stay out of it so your own child isn’t put in the middle of a huge drama scene?
Why do these guys put up with abusive woman?
 

El Correcto

god is dead
I want to ask you guys something. If a friend of your child was in an abusive relationship, and you know the dad, would you tell him what’s going on or stay out of it so your own child isn’t put in the middle of a huge drama scene?
How old is this Muslim?

I’d tell the dad if he wasn’t a big ol pusillanimous and would go jihad his ass. Specially if he was hitting his little girl.
 

El Correcto

god is dead
He’s 18 possibly 19. HER dad is not Muslim. The boy is Muslim. I don’t think he’s gotten to the hitting stage yet.
Well if he is beating her ass you tell the dad, father’s are suppose to mercilessly beat guys who hit their daughters.

Best you can do is annoy the boyfriend with constant attention for the girl. It’ll drive his insecurities wild.
 
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