We are getting to that point but my wife still buys me something small and I get her nothing. It's a little awkward but I really simply don't care about presents. My friends insist that I'm highly socially abnormal and I just shrug my shoulders. Maybe they're right, but I just don't get it.Years ago we made a deal in my immediate family that we wouldn't buy each other gifts for xmas/birthdays etc and it's really been a relief for everyone. Now on those days we just get together eat some good food and hang out.