By Invitation Only

[old levi's]

With taking that many days off?

yes

 

[Brownslave688]

yes

I work enough to pay my bills.

I work enough to get full pension credit for the year and provide my family insurance.

Passed that why would it bother me?

 

[old levi's]

OMFG

 

[Brownslave688]

OMFG

If you can't come out and tell me what's supposed to bother me about it. Than I can't tell you why it doesn't bother me. Lol

 

[old levi's]

so you are content to get by, while your wife carries the load?

 

[old levi's]

the same wife that you share with the neighbors

 

[old levi's]

we need a funny, @Operational needs

 

[Brownslave688]

so you are content to get by, while your wife carries the load?

For starters this isn't 1940. I have no problem with my wife making more than me. I actually was the sole provider for 10 years. Supporting her while she followed her dream. There's no way she is where she is now without that.


I pay for the house
I pay the one car payment we have
I pay both electric bills
I pay both water bills
I put $80 a month into my daughters college fund.
I pay for all of my own gas
I pay for my breakfast and lunch virtually every day.

I know I pay for all of this because we have separate accounts.

Am I ok with this? Yeah I'm ok with it.

 

[old levi's]

separate accounts? that tells me all I need to know

 

[old levi's]

y'all are just living together

 

[BakerMayfield2018]

For starters this isn't 1940. I have no problem with my wife making more than me. I actually was the sole provider for 10 years. Supporting her while she followed her dream. There's no way she is where she is now without that.


I pay for the house
I pay the one car payment we have
I pay both electric bills
I pay both water bills
I put $80 a month into my daughters college fund.
I pay for all of my own gas
I pay for my breakfast and lunch virtually every day.

I know I pay for all of this because we have separate accounts.

Am I ok with this? Yeah I'm ok with it.

bro. You don’t have to explain yourself to this @Barney mother.

 

[old levi's]

5 more years, divorce court

 

[Brownslave688]

bro. You don’t have to explain yourself to this @Barney mother.

Comical to me.

 

[Operational needs]

we need a funny, @Operational needs

Why are you tagging me?

 

[old levi's]

Why are you tagging me?

for the hell of it

 

[old levi's]

Why are you tagging me?

just looking for a funny

 

[burrheadd]

5 more years, divorce court

What would Seven or XYQZ say about all this

 

[Brownslave688]

separate accounts? that tells me all I need to know

Cracks both of us up when people make such a big deal out of this. It works for us.

Worked for my grandparents for 58 years. Worked for my parents for 36 years so far.

We have more long term financial goals that we share than any other couple we know with possibly one exception. And the wife there is a CPA that's a nazi with the money.

 

[old levi's]

can I get a funny?

 

[Operational needs]

For starters this isn't 1940. I have no problem with my wife making more than me. I actually was the sole provider for 10 years. Supporting her while she followed her dream. There's no way she is where she is now without that.


I pay for the house
I pay the one car payment we have
I pay both electric bills
I pay both water bills
I put $80 a month into my daughters college fund.
I pay for all of my own gas
I pay for my breakfast and lunch virtually every day.

I know I pay for all of this because we have separate accounts.

Am I ok with this? Yeah I'm ok with it.

As long as the two of you are good with it and Ava’s happy, THAT’S what matters.