Just because you did it all the time doesn't mean that it is something you should have been doing.No one is talking about one driver ordering another to do anything.
Driver A was sent out heavy while Driver has a lighter day. Both are in the same loop and have each other’s cell numbers. Driver A reaches out to B to see if they can either meet to swap pickup pieces or if A can leave them at one of B’s pickups. B says no problem and asks if A needs any other help.
Takes less than a minute and leaves mgt out of the decision making process. We did it all the time.
Our dispatcher chooses who does what work at my center.
If my supervisors want me to help another driver, or do anything like you are describing, they will tell me.
If I decide there is a driver I would like to help, I ask my supervisor if it is ok.
Making executive decisions about your time without management being involved sounds like a fast way to get in trouble.