Bonnita,
Sorry for your loss. Not only did Tom play here, I know over on ADV Rider where I also play around Tom was on a bunch and a moderator. There is a huge outpouring (Pages and Pages) of Love towards you and Tom. He is a very well liked inmate! Especially in the basement aka "Jo Momma" where only those with thick skin survive!. Altho never meeting him in person and knowing we had in common UPS/Retired (Brown Cafe) and ADV passion, he made me laugh many a time with his postings! Yes he will be missed, but not forgotten!!
Here is the ADV link to see pages of outpouring for a real genuine guy!
https://advrider.com/friend/threads/memorial-thread-for-an-all-around-good-guy.1501597/