I commend a person for choosing family over work. Its always about family first in any situation. Props to any man whos man enough and responsible to help his wife during the time when their having a child or have just had a child. Thats the sacrifice you make when you get married. Its a 50-50 deal in marriage, the A-HOLE move would be not to be there to help his wife during this time. Good way to end a marriage with selfishness, if your man enough to make 1 you better be man enough to take care of 1 plain and simple.