Do you really think Iraq and Afghanistan would have been better off controlled by Al-Qaeda and the Taliban? As far as American "imperialism" goes, name the countries that we control that want to be free of us? We got out of the Philippines. Puerto Rico repeatedly votes to stay as a commonwealth. So you tell me where are the countries we control that want to be free of us? What countries do we even control that makes us even remotely look like the British Empire, which controlled dozens of now independent countries?
Happens all the time. America goes in, liberates oppressed people provides education, medications, law and investors. People begin crying when some bad eggs get cracked or a little collateral damage happens.
Maybe cry that uneducated unskilled workers who came from a culture of no jobs, very few opportunities for advancement and next to no infrastructure get paid far less than we do when factories get built, roads get paved, energy provided, security to maintain it, need for higher educated employees begin, economy starts to boom, people have a future.
America is so bad and colonialism is so terrible. Why can’t the Afghans go back to burning widows alive and living in huts made of feces?