This isn't even a "nice try." (His will is more than two commandments) Deflect.
Have you obeyed the Gospel of Christ?
Also, the personal relationship you spout about, you do know that any relationship that works requires agreement between at least two persons? Since it's God we're talking about, I wonder if you ever considered what he requires in order to have a relationship? That just maybe since it's God, and he went to some trouble, you know, giving his Son to die and everything, if maybe he might have given some conditions you need to meet in order to be in the relationship that he planned.
Your personal relationship just might not be personal at all, no matter what you "feel".
Maybe a relationship that is based on your terms and feelings isn't even close to what you think it is. There are a zillion examples of folks in scripture who "felt" and "thought" what they were doing was pleasing God, but what is seen is they were only pleasing themselves. Their end was not good.