Maybe, but the difference is I'm telling them not to tell me how to live my life.
They have ideas about religion, I don't care, for me that's not real.
I'm not telling them how to live their lives, I'm telling them not to overlay their ideas about life onto my life.
Point to me when I ever said they should live my life, or when I told them what to do.
If anything, I'm telling them to leave me the friend alone...I'm not telling them what to do, I'm telling them to not tell me what to do.
As a quasi-Libertarian, I think you might appreciate it.