UpstateNYUPSer(Ret)
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Quite well actually. Thanks for asking.
Divorce vs legal separation
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Quite well actually. Thanks for asking.
UpstateNYUPSer(Ret)
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Well her restraining order wasn't continued and after filling mine and given her and her attorney a copy she wanted to work out an temporary agreement till the Divorce is finalized so I withdrew my complaint.
Went back to the house to get a couple of things and she talkative for the first time and months but was prettyoff probably do to the fact she the temporary agreement wasn't to her liking and I got more of what I wanted then she did. I didn't get everything I wanted but I got the most important things overnight visitation....
Sounds like she may be trying to get sole custody.
I'm sure her lawyer told her that will never happen. Thinking about it that could have been why she seemed all pissed off when I stop back to the house to get more of my stuff as she didn't want me to have overnight visitation.
These day you have to pretty much be real dirt bag or just give up your kids not to have joint legal and or shared custody. I could have shared custody but with my 1 hour drive to from work and lack of any help to what the kids after school I'll settle for joint legal custody... But down the road that will change especially when they start getting older.
I agree totally agree. Got to see my son and daughter tonight 2:00 hrs I don't know who was happier me seeing them or they being able to see me.
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I'm Hanging on I think I made it over the hump and thing should start getting better from here on out. There is still a lot to be worked out on the material and financial issues but that pretty much cut and dry....
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ZQXC
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How many years into the marriage?
Be glad it isnt 10 yrs, as you would have to give her half your social security.
After ten should could collect off your social security. However it has no negative impact on what you can collect when you start collecting.
Really? I thought it did.
I was surprised to but it really doesn't.
Lead Belly
BANNED
It's cheaper to keep her.
Since I don't pay a dime for Health insurance it not really cheaper.
Also in the long run. It would be more expensive as right know she will only get $800 of my pension when I retire. In 10 years she be getting $2000 of it a month if not more...
UnconTROLLed
perfection
Honestly, many if not most people should never marry and especially, have children. Good ol' social norms and conformity have to screw everything up, though.
Brownslave688
You want a toe? I can get you a toe.
Yep. I don't know about kids but marriage is something society created. We realt are not meant to liv together for 20,30,40,50 years.
Operational needs
Virescit Vulnere Virtus
And yet you're married....... Lol.
Brownslave688
You want a toe? I can get you a toe.
I'm married because I want kids. Otherwise no way.
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