I absolutely get a nice buzz here. Nearly everyone here is smarter than me, all the conservatives have an excellent sense of humor and, IMO, make great arguments often using their sense of humor. They think with their brains and not their emotions. You, being a female, are more inclined to think with emotion but your limiting yourself by doing so. Many women break through this instinctual emotion think inclination and become logical thinkers. Try it!
I doubt that you will recognize the humor displayed by many here because the humor is often geared to those who can think their way to see the humor. Many here are extremely funny and I find myself laughing out loud while reading humorous posts. I mean REALLY funny stuff.