UpstateNYUPSer(Ret)
Well-Known Member
If what she posted is indeed true and any attempts to get the driver to back off fail she should call UPS and get the driver moved to a different route.
More than flirting....
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Not a UPS problem.
You are a widowed self reliant woman. Leave him a note at the door telling him to leave your stuff and no further contact as you know the truth. Making him lose his job will only hurt his wife and child, they will find out soon enough if hes the loser you say. Do not be the one to cause them to find out, you will still get blamed.
Tell him in the note, that you were only trying to be a friend, nothing more, goodbye.
I really doubt that the UPS men are playing those kinds of games. Most have families, and wives who dont get to see them as it is, the reason he brought your pkg by when he was out of hours in his personal car.
Take it as a compliment that you were pursued and let it go. You cant fix stupid, and if he is a married man pursuing a woman, take yourself out of it.
Do not change your life, your deliveries, shopping etc.
Better yet, send me his number. I will text him for you......
Now I want to know what this distraught widow looks like, that a driver would risk losing his family over.
As a happily married man, there are very few women who would be able to persuade me to "come in for some tea"
As a happily married man, there are very few women who would be able to persuade me to "come in for some tea"
Indecisi0n
Well-Known Member
You have pictures?
oldngray
nowhere special
It must have been a supervisor running a route.
upscat
Well-Known Member
A nice seedy story. Cougar thinking about pouncing on young ups driver. Suddenly discovering another woman also found the guy attractive and married him. The teasing and toyiing as they slowly migrate towards coitus. A touch of moral indignation on a slippery slope of wanton lust. this has all the makings of a nice chapter in Penthouse forum and thus the thread lives and evolves. ...
BMWMC
B.C. boohoo buster.
A man lying to a women to have sex with her? Oh, the shock. The horror. I mean where in this world would you see that kind of moral decline?
You know, women are as pure as the driven snow. That lipstick, padded bra, pantyhose, eye liner, cover girl, girdle, perfume, are not really lies because its not something she say's it's something she does. "cough"
Had this guy been unmarried this whole drama would be taking place under her sheets. She mad because he's married and lied about it. Good grief what planet does this women live on. More than half of marriages end in divorce and for about 99% the party wanting the divorces has already found someone else. Hence the divorce. Its also become pretty well know research that about 60% of married men "cheat" aka: get something on the side, and about 40% of women.
Its seem to me this Rebecca of Sunnybrook Farm live in her own Glass Menagerie. Marriage is not a prison cell. Its a promise and all promises end. We don't live in a world of black and white but in shades of gray. Or 50 Shades of Gray should you want to read that book. Listen princess, get over yourself, feel lucky someone would want to have a romantic relationship with you, take what you can get from this world (its quite stingy and unpredictable) and stop trying to be someone else's moral babysitter.
Life is short, live, love, and be merry before the sunset comes.
You know, women are as pure as the driven snow. That lipstick, padded bra, pantyhose, eye liner, cover girl, girdle, perfume, are not really lies because its not something she say's it's something she does. "cough"
Had this guy been unmarried this whole drama would be taking place under her sheets. She mad because he's married and lied about it. Good grief what planet does this women live on. More than half of marriages end in divorce and for about 99% the party wanting the divorces has already found someone else. Hence the divorce. Its also become pretty well know research that about 60% of married men "cheat" aka: get something on the side, and about 40% of women.
Its seem to me this Rebecca of Sunnybrook Farm live in her own Glass Menagerie. Marriage is not a prison cell. Its a promise and all promises end. We don't live in a world of black and white but in shades of gray. Or 50 Shades of Gray should you want to read that book. Listen princess, get over yourself, feel lucky someone would want to have a romantic relationship with you, take what you can get from this world (its quite stingy and unpredictable) and stop trying to be someone else's moral babysitter.
Life is short, live, love, and be merry before the sunset comes.
upscat
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chuchu
Guest
Yeah, you're the judge and jury.
The customer texted, hugged and played the game with him by her own admission.
Wake up. They're both wrong. She's a trap. He's stupid.
Only the pair of socks, he left behind!
stealth8
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How about the shoe on the other foot? Several years ago I had a long time female customer of mine have me carry in two large packages in for her. As I turned to leave she blocked the door and started saying that she always had "fantasies" about me ever time I had a delivery for her or even when she just saw the brown truck go by. She then proceeded to tell me the things she would like to "do" to me.
I was totally shocked because I had been delivering for over 15 years to her house and had gotten to know her, her husband and her two kids! She was well known in the community and was even in charge of the local church and was also PTA president!
You wouldn't be a normal male UPS driver if you hadn't had a fantasy or two about this sort of thing, but when it happened to me I was scared smile*less! All I could think about was my wife ,my kids, and my job! She got upset when I stopped her advances and started crying as I left her house. I ended up calling into my supervisor to report the incident just to CMA! Upon returning to the hub I had to fill out a detailed description of what was said and what had happened. UPS wanted to send someone out to talk to her , but I talked them out of it, because I didn't want the woman's life ruined because of me.
I asked UPS just to make sure the incident was in my file in case of any further "incidents" at that address. We then agreed that any future deliveries would be left without making any contact at that address. Over time I have bumped into her in the neighborhood and we both just act like nothing ever happened.
I was totally shocked because I had been delivering for over 15 years to her house and had gotten to know her, her husband and her two kids! She was well known in the community and was even in charge of the local church and was also PTA president!
You wouldn't be a normal male UPS driver if you hadn't had a fantasy or two about this sort of thing, but when it happened to me I was scared smile*less! All I could think about was my wife ,my kids, and my job! She got upset when I stopped her advances and started crying as I left her house. I ended up calling into my supervisor to report the incident just to CMA! Upon returning to the hub I had to fill out a detailed description of what was said and what had happened. UPS wanted to send someone out to talk to her , but I talked them out of it, because I didn't want the woman's life ruined because of me.
I asked UPS just to make sure the incident was in my file in case of any further "incidents" at that address. We then agreed that any future deliveries would be left without making any contact at that address. Over time I have bumped into her in the neighborhood and we both just act like nothing ever happened.
bleedinbrown58
That’s Craptacular
Brown or tube socks? lol
jaker
trolling
That is why I don't go inside people's house , I am way to sexy and don't want to get rape
C
chuchu
Guest
Better than that, send it to Upstate and he'll give it to loss prevention.
C
chuchu
Guest
Some of us can relate. Just when you think you'be seen and heard it all on your route you get further educated every year you deliver to the public.
Advice i try to remember: when you see poop in your walk path, avoid it. Unless you're looking for trouble its easier to stay out of it than to get out of it.
