Boxed said: "One week before my family vacation (was planned around the vacation forms that did not indicate any sort of "memorial peak season week") I told my manager I absolutely could not cancel the plans on several families as well as plane tickets and mess up all our plans to come in and work part time 4 hours. I explained I absolutely would not be in as I could not be in due to family and friend obligations that I formed based on my original vacation form, a form that did not indicate a peak memorial week was off the table."
Family and Friend obligations? What about work obligations? Was someone being married or baptized, etc.? To me, work is more important in life than recreation. Now, if someone in your family is ill, well that comes first. However, that's not the case here.
See, at UPS there is rules and procedure for taking time off and its ruled by seniority. If you can just take time off whenever you want with zero respect to your senior co-workers you are undermining the seniority list. So, why then, have seniority in the first place?
Year after year I hear from junior co-workers whining that their family has rented a cottage or they themselves have booked a cottage for a certain week before they even picked vacations and now they can't get the week. Well, "DUH!" you stupid idiot. Why would you do that? And don't have a senior worker pick for you and then switch with him. That's worse and its simply not fair. The only way it could be fair is if I could bump you after you switched.
I have no sympathy for you because I've been full-time for 14 years and this is the first year that I was able to select a July or August week. In fact, it was a July week and it was the last one left in July and August. I put my dues in and so should you.
You really have some balls to ask 3 times for the days off, then be denied, still take them without a call and then come on here to complain about.
Also, you really should have known better that telling them in advance was not good enough. You should know at UPS you have to make that phone call regardless if they know or not that you will be out. Its the procedure at UPS. A simple 15 second phone call would have saved you a ton of grief. Yeah, you say you were 100 miles from a phone, but how about before you left? Is there even a place in the United States that is 100 miles from a phone these days? I would highly doubt it.
I'm not trying to be mean or rude or anything, I'm just telling you like it is...