You have yet to give me any circumstances on which to weigh in. You can tell me your story, and I can tell you, yes, based on what you have said, that woman did you wrong, stay strong bro. I never said misandry doesn't exist, I never said women are perfect. I have yet to defend a single woman in our entire exchange. You haven't spoken about a single woman for me to comment on. You are only seeing what you want to see, which speaks volumes about your attitude towards women in general, which is what I have been criticizing. I am not defending all women everywhere.
If you read this entire thread, you could argue that I took the side of the man in question, even though I was trying to be fair and objective based solely on the one side of the story. I am not a white knight, and I was just waiting for you to throw that term out there. I will defend anyone, man or woman, if I feel the situation warrants it. I don't subscribe to feminism, and believe that the philosophy has done more harm than good to women, and society in general. But, do you know why feminism was started? It was in response to the attitude towards women that you are displaying. So you are continuing the cause of your own suffering instead of fixing yourself, you use women as a scapegoat.
I'm not defending women here. I am explaining why they do what
@rod was describing, and giving men a different way to look at the situation so they can make better decisions. Women and men do not think/feel the same way about sex. Disclaimer, I know this is a generalization, but it is a helpful one, as it is true enough to be useful in all situations regarding one night stands. They are a bad idea. Feminism, especially since the advent of birth control, tells women they should be able to have sex strictly for pleasure, just like men do. But it just doesn't work that way, for women or men.
Life is unfair all over, no need to add to the unfairness by blaming women for your misery.