What are you rambling about? I know people on both sides. Get into a private conversation with them then you begin to see most people don’t really hate anyone, it’s mostly misunderstanding, and the ones that hate can be equally divided on each side.
Take you for example, it’s clear you are an identity politics person. It’s the only thing defines you, You have no desire to find out what someone really believes or what they really think, or why, you only look at they’re support of a certain political group. In other words, you have chosen to “hate” someone because of a letter behind their name, which is pretty much meaningless. Congratulations. I honestly cannot think of anything more empty and vapid than that. A very small person is what you are both inside and out.