An Open Letter to Brown Cafe Bullies and Flamers

[Integrity]

You sound like a fun person to hang out with. Lol.

What does this even mean?

 

[IVE GOTTA PACKAGE 4U]

Do you set the rules? Kick me off if I'm not supposed to be here. BTW my dispatcher told me yesterday that I'm the best PVD he's seen EVER. This was my goal. Nothing to do with money or needing a job. I wanted to take on the challenge (it IS challenging yes?) and see if I could do better than others which I have. This IS NOT bragging - just self fulfillment. Im sure I'll get flamed for this too. No problem. It's all about me for me.

You better go look at the mirror son. For being a newbie you sure do put out a lot of personal attacks and name calling.

 

[quad decade guy]

As I see it the Brown Cafe “Terms of Service” are the rules.

For some.....

 

[Integrity]

You better go look at the mirror son. For being a newbie you sure do put out a lot of personal attacks and name calling.

I believe personal attacks and name calling on the BC should be reported.

 

[quad decade guy]

Way overreacting over one post? I don't get that?

Must be a snowflake?

I guess you're talking about the lady.

"Overreacting".....more narcissistic speak. Victim shaming.

Lot's of Youtube stuff on this. See if you recognize any of it.

 

[quad decade guy]

Yes we are.
I think what we forget is we're so used to busting each other's balls all the time because we have been around each other all the time.
Some of the newer people aren't used to that.

Interesting.

So, we are supposed to "get used to it"? "All the time..."?

 

[zubenelgenubi]

I believe personal attacks and name calling on the BC should be reported.

We're mostly adults here. We should be able to handle some name calling and personal attacks. I enjoy it when people do it to me, because I see it it as a green light to fire back. If it becomes a pattern of behavior directed at, or coming from a particular person, that needs to be throttled. If two are engaged in a back and forth, and neither complains about the way the other is treating them, then it shouldn't be an issue.

 

[IVE GOTTA PACKAGE 4U]

Interesting.

So, we are supposed to "get used to it"? "All the time..."?

You're not getting it. It's like a celebrity roast. Making fun of each other all in good fun.

Sometimes some of the members forget that we used to busting each other's shops all in good fun and the newbies aren't quite ready for that

 

[Lineandinitial]

This is why everyone laughs at you

Not everyone is laughing at you....Keep doing what you're doing! @Integrity will back you!

 

[Lineandinitial]

It's going to be GREAT if they offer this PVD a PT Supe job and I'll be ed!

...and be your Boss!

 

[Integrity]

We're mostly adults here. We should be able to handle some name calling and personal attacks. I enjoy it when people do it to me, because I see it it as a green light to fire back. If it becomes a pattern of behavior directed at, or coming from a particular person, that needs to be throttled. If two are engaged in a back and forth, and neither complains about the way the other is treating them, then it shouldn't be an issue.

Your position on this matter appears to be in violation of BC TOS #6.

 

[IVE GOTTA PACKAGE 4U]

We're mostly adults here. We should be able to handle some name calling and personal attacks. I enjoy it when people do it to me, because I see it it as a green light to fire back. If it becomes a pattern of behavior directed at, or coming from a particular person, that needs to be throttled. If two are engaged in a back and forth, and neither complains about the way the other is treating them, then it shouldn't be an issue.

Shove it up your pie hole

 

[Integrity]

You're not getting it. It's like a celebrity roast. Making fun of each other all in good fun.

Sometimes some of the members forget that we used to busting each other's shops all in good fun and the newbies aren't quite ready for that

I have found that the motives of some of the “joking” to not be in good fun.

At times I have found this type of response to be a cover for bad character wanting to shift the blame to the rightly aggrieved party.

 

[MyTripisCut]

We're mostly adults here. We should be able to handle some name calling and personal attacks. I enjoy it when people do it to me, because I see it it as a green light to fire back. If it becomes a pattern of behavior directed at, or coming from a particular person, that needs to be throttled. If two are engaged in a back and forth, and neither complains about the way the other is treating them, then it shouldn't be an issue.

We may be the perfect example. I used to bust your chops hard because you were collecting rocks, then we had heated arguments over masks. I definitely learned to respect your point of view through all of this and appreciate you for it. Even though we don’t see eye To eye, neither ever cried to the powers that be.

 

[MyTripisCut]

I have found that the motives of some of the “joking” to not be in good fun.

At times I have found this type of response to be a cover for bad character wanting to shift the blame to the rightly aggrieved party.

 

[Integrity]

For some.....

I don’t understand what this means.

 

[Integrity]

Not everyone is laughing at you....Keep doing what you're doing! @Integrity will back you!

I laugh at no one.

I will back you.

If I observe in what my opinion is a violation of the BC TOS, I will also report you.

 

[IVE GOTTA PACKAGE 4U]

I have found that the motives of some of the “joking” to not be in good fun.

At times I have found this type of response to be a cover for bad character wanting to shift the blame to the rightly aggrieved party.

I guess you are half correct is so many people are trolling and just trying to cause issues and sometimes other people are just trying to be funny

It's hard to judge somebody's contacts of a text or a post without hearing thirty actual voice and understanding the context of their reply

 

[Integrity]

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To each his own.

 

[NAHimGOOD]

Blah blah bla... the newbies aren't quite ready for that

They are pansies.

Just say it