well i see my husband for 12 hours a week...like once every 3-7 weeks..... he works at ups ft driver about 7 hours away. it has been almost a year since he moved away. I did not see him thanksgiving , thorough Christmas up until second week in January... or our 17 wedding anniversary....ummmm never saw him either.... i feel like there is no support and its worse than being an army wife. I feel like a single parent. I feel like no one understands. I have no help with my child, i do have some priden in raising my child and how successful he is doing, but i find myself very bitter about ups and them not opening a driving job closer to our home. I have been married 17 years to him. this year has sucked and i have no idea what he was thinking now when he thought it would be a good idea to drive fulltime and eventually be moved back to his home area. I have 2 volunteer jobs, work out at least 1 hour a day and work 50+ hours a week myself so i don't think i am needy, i can support myself but i feel like my husband left me a year ago, divorced me for a brown truck.......lol i must be BS crazy to stay in a relationship like this...... i am angry and need to vent and this place looks better than facebook so anyone can read this can have their laugh..... but it sucks. i have been asked out, told that i need to get over my husband because the quicker i get over him the quicker i will move on...i hate putting stress on him because i know he works hard but this is ridiculous...... maybe i should leave him.....and move on because i see no other ups people dealing with this.....