Now it's 53 Democrats. The peaceful transition of power line is crap, and comes from the campaign, where Trump threatened not to accept the results...unless he won. Remember? This was before Russian interference became readily apparent. We really don't know the extent until he releases the taxes and the investigations are all over. He hasn't, and they aren't.
The legitimacy of Trump's election is in question. He absolutely will be sworn-in, but that doesn't mean he got there legitimately. All Trump cares about is himself and "winning". I doubt he'd worry at all about cheating to get there. His continuing softness on Russia is both bothersome and a very possible indication that he is beholden to Russia. Oh, and those taxes he won't release. Another dig at the legitimacy. Oops. Almost forgot the refusal to divest his assets.
The world is seeing our democracy at it's worst, and it's due to Trump, not our process. He is an embarrassment, probably insane, and very dangerous. He already has the world in turmoil. Not our process...him.
So, yes. Right now there are plenty reasons to be ashamed.