upschuck
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What they are saying is the math doesn't add up. 40 in 2000 means at least 58 today, and if he is 65 in July, he got you pregnant when he was 6 years old? Really?Yes, and seven grandchildren he's never met.
What they are saying is the math doesn't add up. 40 in 2000 means at least 58 today, and if he is 65 in July, he got you pregnant when he was 6 years old? Really?Yes, and seven grandchildren he's never met.
To be closer to ages -- youngest was 21 oldest was 29 or so....can't recall exactly since they are my stepdaughter. He was married at 16. He was star quarterback in tiny high school who got the cheerleader pregnant.What they are saying is the math doesn't add up. 40 in 2000 means at least 58 today, and if he is 65 in July, he got you pregnant when he was 6 years old? Really?
And he had 2 daughters that dis-owned him in 2000 when they were in their forties?
Sure was a timy school to have only 1 cheerleader....To be closer to ages -- youngest was 21 oldest was 29 or so....can't recall exactly since they are my stepdaughter. He was married at 16. He was star quarterback in tiny high school who got the cheerleader pregnant.
Thanks for relating to my life with a narcissistic Ex UPS man. I, too, finally got my divorce and am enjoying life after 39 years of misery. He basically went crazy when they told him he was "busted"....He could never accept a demotion so chose to retire....I truly believe that's how UPS gets rid of excess pension baggage. He immediately blamed me for everything in his life, disowned me, isolated me from family and friends, then started drinking and bar hopping. He has a seasonal part time job with baseball stadium giving tours, otherwise draws social security and pension. He couldn't control me thru family so started in on removing me from financial stuff, then the courts thru divorce. Narcissism knows no boundaries. At the same time stalking me to maintain that control. I moved out of state to get away. His own daughters have a restraining order against him...and he has seven grandchildren he will never know. I hope for him that the 37 years he put in were truly worth it, and that the "building" will comfort him on his deathbed.
It is Harry Chapin, "Cats in The Cradle" not cat stevens.Reminds me of Cat Stevens "Cats in The Cradle" song
You corrected yourself before a shameless beat down.It is Harry Chapin, "Cats in The Cradle" not cat stevens.
Somehow I got Cat Stevens Father and Son crossed up with Harry Chapin Cats in The Cradle.You corrected yourself before a shameless beat down.
Strange how so many divorces happen shortly after retiring. I hope he stashed some money on the side!!I'm the spouse of a force-retired UPS manager. We were married 29 years so I get half of everything of everything but because it's pension and 401K money, we had to pay 1,100 to have it audited by a private law firm. Has anyone had any experience in this area? How long does it take? We're divorced since January 4 land I still have no money....what takes UPS so long to audit our Plans?
Don't you worry, she will!! Sheeeeeeee, will!My condolences to you. Being married to a center manager must be the ultimate hell on Earth. Take him for everything hes worth--plus more.
How Hott are ya?
Do you like to party?
Then in 10 years, she can get the other half of the pension,
FROM YOU!!!
I know. My money says it wouldn't have been that good a time for ya! Would you take a chance, sight unseen??? Anything she wants? You gotta do? Well? Do ya feel lucky??Easy now I just wanted to show her a good time
I know. My money says it wouldn't have been that good a time for ya! Would you take a chance, sight unseen??? Anything she wants? You gotta do? Well? Do ya feel lucky??
I know I've rolled those dice! I think they were loaded!I’ve rolled the dice in the past
Ya win some ya lose some
Strange how so many divorces happen shortly after retiring. I hope he stashed some money on the side!!