I don't think you are stuck yet. Otherwise you would not have posted, asking if you should go full time. You are probably thinking you have missed your chance to get a good job doing something meaningful, as most of us felt after 6 1/2 years of part time. You are wrong. You are still young. You still have opportunities if you stop double shifting and you and your family buckle down and live on her income and your single shift income for a few short years. If you use the extra hours to get trained for whatever is your true calling, you will not regret it. It sounds like you have an understanding wife. Discuss with her your dreams you may have lost sight of. Spend time in prayer asking God to guide you. You are still young, you are smart, don't let others tell you you are not qualified to do anything else. Get qualified. Buckle down, don't take the easy route and sacrifice for a few years so you won't feel stuck or trapped the rest of your life. Make a concrete plan with goals for 2,4, and 8 years down the road. You only live once.I completely agree with this and the two others below. As for me though, I'm already stuck in the box.
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Yeah, I'm pretty much stuck. Have a mortgage, a 2.5 year old daughter, a son on the way, a wife with a full time job, and humongous student loan debt, car payment, etc. Not to mention 30 years old, and a guy that hates the idea of organized religion( there goes prayer). However, I still do LOVE the physical labor (for now anyway) in kind of a gluten for punishment kind of way. So after 6.5 years of this sweet job, I'm looking forward to busting my ass for at least another 26 or so. Unless, I go completely insane, pack up my balls and decide to go management.I don't think you are stuck yet. Otherwise you would not have posted, asking if you should go full time. You are probably thinking you have missed your chance to get a good job doing something meaningful, as most of us felt after 6 1/2 years of part time. You are wrong. You are still young. You still have opportunities if you stop double shifting and you and your family buckle down and live on her income and your single shift income for a few short years. If you use the extra hours to get trained for whatever is your true calling, you will not regret it. It sounds like you have an understanding wife. Discuss with her your dreams you may have lost sight of. Spend time in prayer asking God to guide you. You are still young, you are smart, don't let others tell you you are not qualified to do anything else. Get qualified. Buckle down, don't take the easy route and sacrifice for a few years so you won't feel stuck or trapped the rest of your life. Make a concrete plan with goals for 2,4, and 8 years down the road. You only live once.
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You think driving is bad, way more stressful in management. Once you go driving and you've been doing it for a while and your a cool dude, theres no way youll ever see yourself going into management. Unless your cool with selling your soul to the devil and don't mind looking in the mirror every day knowing that you sold out and everything about your life at work is a complete lie. Just saying I don't know how anyone could go into management and be able to live with the lies and shadiness that goes with it.Yeah, I'm pretty much stuck. Have a mortgage, a 2.5 year old daughter, a son on the way, a wife with a full time job, and humongous student loan debt, car payment, etc. Not to mention 30 years old, and a guy that hates the idea of organized religion( there goes prayer). However, I still do LOVE the physical labor (for now anyway) in kind of a gluten for punishment kind of way. So after 6.5 years of this sweet job, I'm looking forward to busting my ass for at least another 26 or so. Unless, I go completely insane, pack up my balls and decide to go management.
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If I had something of value, that I could easily list on ebay for nothing, I would do that before I would give it to someone else to make money on. And I would wait until I found the right buyer, before I would give it away, but thats just me.
It always amazes me, that when they find out what its really worth, they take 50%. I would sleep under a bridge first.
I would not recommend this job to anyone I know. I think that even if you start driving in your early 20's, making it to 30 will be tough. Let's face it, the pension is the pot of gold at the end of the rainbow. I have 5 years to go, and they are going to be tough.
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Youll never make 30 if you started after the year 2000. No way possibly physically unless you take a combo job. That's just being honest.
That's what I meant by "go completely insane, and pack up my balls "You think driving is bad, way more stressful in management. Once you go driving and you've been doing it for a while and your a cool dude, theres no way youll ever see yourself going into management. Unless your cool with selling your soul to the devil and don't mind looking in the mirror every day knowing that you sold out and everything about your life at work is a complete lie. Just saying I don't know how anyone could go into management and be able to live with the lies and shadiness that goes with it.
Amen couldn't have said it better myselfNo doubt about, this company chews people up, and spits em out like a combine machine. I have seen a few of my co-workers pass away before their time, and others fall to the wayside from knee and blown disc injuries. Doesn't matter how good of shape you are in, one poor decision can end your career. I cannot stress enough to the rookies how important putting your health and safety in front of stops per hour is.
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Just don't go to the dark side that's all.That's what I meant by "go completely insane, and pack up my balls "
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Never. That is seriously not even an option that I would consider actually on the table. I was thinking Drive now, or wait like 6 more years, working a moving job, and doubling until hopefully be senior enough to combo(which I didn't really want to do to begin with).Just don't go to the dark side that's all.
Combo may not sound attractive right now, but trust me dude, once you start getting some higher mileage on your back, hips, shoulders, knees, a combo job will look AWFULLY ATTRACTIVE lol.
So, are you saying drive, then choose to take a pay cut, and then go combo?The key is to live within your means so that you can afford the pay cut.
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