Yes I guess so, and why is that, we must be lonely overworked Upsers............by the time we unwind, everyone else is wound down. Or else we are just so much more exuberant than the rest. I do my best thinking this time of night.
the reference to "1st" wife, simply started as a little joke between her & I. it caught her off guard the 1st time I said it, so I just kept using it. I've adapted it little over the years sometime I speak of my "last" wife.
keep smilin'....everyone wonders what the hell your on....