Getting out of hand... maybe a little?
Perhaps off the subject... completely.
Someone somewhere in all these posts mentioned that only her side is known. Always remember there are three sides to every story: his, her's, and the truth.
And, mgr., how dare you compare infidelity to losing a child. These 2 events are not even in the same league. It is a slap in the face to any parent that has gone through the pain of burying their child to compare the 2. You're not even a parent... And you owe any parent in that situation an apology.
You're not burying your ex... you're justing closing this chapter of your life.
When you take a breath and stop going back & forth from being vindictive to playing the victim, maybe you can finally decide to concentrate on you and getting your life in order.