See I knew it could happen!
I think stories are so important. It separates what we do for a living to why we live.
I hope you and your bride have all the happiness you waited so long to find and is so deserved.
I met my husband when I was 16, he was all I ever thought of for years. We were always friends, but never lovers.
I had a 68 charger and he had a 68 coronet, and every time he wanted to race, guess who won?
He taught me how to shoot a gun, guess who won? I still ahve the pic of him looking at it to see why he couldnt shoot one can and I got all 6?
He rode a harley, and I would follow him around and take pics, and I still have them all. he would ride his bikes in the winter!! and I have fabulous pics from a 110 camera if you can believe it.
Well as fate would have it we were just friends and his life took him all over the country, and I just stayed here. But it was like deja vue, I wouldnt see him for yrs, then one day I heard this car, while I was sitting having coffee with my Mom, and there he was, outside the window driving by. I just felt him there, and he was.
Id see him a while we would chat, have a drink, never a date and he was gone. he got married, I got married, and then I was single for 22 some yrs as I got divorced. then one day.. after my youngest son left for the military and my oldest son was well into his new career, I realized, I was alone, my job was done,
I was reading the local paper and saw his name, in the police blotter of course, a ticket on a harley. I went to this bar, where all the bike guys hung out, I was moving away, and knew I would never see him again, but he was in my heart I had to see him and there he was. With a girl of course, told me he had gotten a divorce, was staying in a nearby town, I gave him a peck, his girlfriend went berserk, I just laughed, and she said I have known him for two weeks, and hes my man. I said Ive known him all my life and hes my friend, and I left.
I went to San antonio, to see my son graduate, and he burned up the phone lines to my former house where my oldest son still lived. When I got home we set up a date, I stood him up, he deserved it, then I went out with him nov 11 1997, and been together every since. We got stranded together in the worst snowstorm I have seen in quite some time, and decided this was where we were meant to be.
He has seen 4 grandchildren born that are every much his as mine, and four family deaths that he has lead me through. We are night and day at times, I collect pottery and watch wildlife, and hes a biker guy, with a heart of gold. he even has learned pottery and buys it for me all the time. Ive also learned about panhead parts and suprise him now and then. We still like hot rods, and mine is still hotter, but he still has bikes and I dont ride. Maybe that will change this summer as he built one for me called baby doll.
Now aint that warm and fuzzy? We got married in 2002, in Vegas BABY!!!!!
And my ex cooked at my reception!!! HAAAAA Sorry so long, I just had to share!!!!