Last time I checked, charitable giving isn't supposed to be a contest between different types of groups. If you look at it that way, you are doing it for all the wrong reasons. Not to mention, how much of those tithes go to pay for ridiculous super mega churches? We have one right up the road that cost somewhere around $10 million to build. That money could have been so much better spent helping people while they stayed in their humble little church that maybe just needed an addition to make it a bit bigger, but instead they needed a cafe, a concert hall, etc etc. Oh, and the money for the helicopter to drop candy on the kids a few times a year, in order to lure the little kiddies there.