Let it go my brother He is happy with his life choices , everyone has a different definition of happiness. Hello your family probably makes at double of what mine does .I'm completely happy.You know what I have a problem with. People that make 1/7th of what I make pretending there all high and mighty . Talking about 401k investments and so on and so forth while sitting at home on the couch 20 hours a day, Telling me what I should and shouldn’t be doing with my money.