59 Dano
I just want to make friends!
Never said my pension was $3000. And I don't have a car note. My wife does. When I cashed out 401k I paid off $4k on her credit cards. One card left and the car. You like to leap to conclusions.
Not to split hairs, but if your wife has a car note, then you have a car note. If you paid $4k on your wife's credit cards, you paid $4k on your credit cards. Your marriage is none of my business and I don't care, but any married person who thinks of things in terms of "There's my money, then there's your money; there's my bills, then there's your bills" is asking for problems.