Dude, you have railroaders in your family? Their family life STINKS! Especially freight railroaders...
A mother of two who is oncall and could be called into work at any time of the day/night (on the schedules no one else wants)....It is NOT a job for those who care about their families!
It was a dream of mine to become a railroader (been a railfan since I was in my mom's womb; big reason I like working at UPS is they are the largest single customer of the US railroads), but even without a family I lnew that life would be tough and didn't jump at it. Now that I have one...
I do have family that works on the railroad. A cousin that worked the extra board until he had saved enough money to put down substantial down payments on 2 houses that he gave to his daughters as wedding gifts.
If a person lives in a large city, there are many shortlines that are hiring. Shortlines typically have more predictable runs. There are several shortlines that will reimburse tuition for new hires that have an engineer's license (google: modoc rail academy.)
The extra board can suck for a family, but working at UPS can also suck for family life. A single mom making $120k has advantages over a single mom that makes $30k.