UpstateNYUPSer(Ret)
Well-Known Member
Your kids are fortunate to have such a helpful dad.
I guess if your going to do a 401k loan, helping your kids with college is a worthwhile reason.
The ex and I split their first year between us and then we split everything by 3 for the remaining 3 years. Grad school was on their own dime. This worked out well for our daughter but our son decided to party during his first year so Mommy and Daddy cut off the check book at that point. He paid for everything beyond that himself and today has his MBA.