The question now is, were you made?
This is the kind of "made" he meant , upstate. :
To become made, the inductee is said to be required to take the oath of Omertà or, "code of silence." This ceremony allegedly involves the pricking of the trigger finger of the inductee, then dripping blood onto a picture of a Saint, typically St. Francis of Assisi or the Virgin Mary, which is then set alight in his hand and kept burning until the inductee has sworn the oath of loyalty to his new "family", e.g., "As this card burns, may my soul burn in Hell if I betray the oath of Omertà", or "As burns this saint, so will burn my soul. I enter alive and I will have to get out dead".[3] However, contrary to popular depictions in films, the burning of the image of the family's saint (often a tissue is substituted) is not a test of will. The paper is juggled from hand to hand by the new member and it burns so quickly that no damage is done if he juggles the burning paper.
The ceremony is supposed to take place in a darkened room with at least 2 made men as witnesses. A gun and sword are placed on the table where the mobster will take his oath. While this ceremony is still common among the Sicilian Mafia and Five Families, many families in the U.S. do not perform this ceremony due to increased scrutiny by law enforcement.
After the ceremony the inductee is now a made man and a full member of the Mafia hierarchy. Inducted as a soldier (Italian: soldato), he is given certain responsibilities and privileges. The made man now enjoys the full protection and backing of the Mafia establishment as long as he remains in favor and earns enough money of which a percentage of his earnings are passed further up the hierarchy.
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