dilligaf
IN VINO VERITAS
This thought crossed my mind. What exactly is "harrassment"? I hear it all the time but never experienced it personally. I've been dragged in the office and read the riot act when I friend-ed up but would not consider this harrassment. Are you saying you got yelled at for not using your hand-rail during an observation and then them following you every day is harrassment? I wouldn't. I would say that is a good business person looking out for his bottom line.
If he worked for you in your family business I believe you would do the same.
So what exactly is harrassment? I believe I work with a bunch of babies. Work and life are hard. People are cruel. Deal with it like a man and don't start crying to your mommy. "mommy mommy my center manager keeps yelling at me because I have late air everyday and I deliver grounds before 1030" That's how I feel at least...
Sorry BH, I had to jump in on this one. I understand and agree with what you said, in part and parcel. I take what you say literally. If I have late air every day then I deserve the discipline that will come with it BUT:
My center manager had better not be yelling at me. He would not allow me to yell at him without a threat of a warning letter and I have had such for just that. That is unacceptable for anyone to be allowed to treat another person in such a manner that they themselves would threaten to fire over.
I have had this company protect a male driver for doing this exact thing. NOT ACCEPTABLE. I had to get a restraining order against the driver before the company realized that I was friend serious.
harassment (either harris-meant or huh-rass-meant) n. the act of systematic and/or continued unwanted and annoying actions of one party or a group, including threats and demands. The purposes may vary, including racial prejudice, personal malice, an attempt to force someone to quit a job or grant sexual favors, apply illegal pressure to collect a bill, or merely gain sadistic pleasure from making someone fearful or anxious. Such activities may be the basis for a lawsuit if due to discrimination based on race or sex, a violation on the statutory limitations on collection agencies, involve revenge by an ex-spouse, or be shown to be a form of blackmail ("I'll stop bothering you, if you'll go to bed with me"). The victim may file a petition for a "stay away" (restraining) order, intended to prevent contact by the offensive party. A systematic pattern of harassment by an employee against another worker may subject the employer to a lawsuit for failure to protect the worker. |
This is not the 'good ole boys' club anymore and anyone who thinks it is needs to be brought back down to earth. If that means doing it the hard way, then so be it. The Golden Rule: Treat others as you expect to be treated. If you want to be a dick then that is what you will get back.