HELP ME MAKE THIS RELATIONSHIP WORK!!!

[Sweetheart4]

I wouldn't say deep pain because I am a strong woman. I would say I want to spend the rest of my life with this man and at 55 years old I think I should make the best decision based on what my future will be like. Just wanted input from UPS people. I do feel he is the one for me. especially with all the vacations he gets every other month.

at least I know every other month we will have more time together.

 

[Brownslave688]

Thank u! I will wait for a new bid be patient and see about nooners and ask if he can wake up at 10:30 pm instead of 11:15 pm..thanks for advise harsh or otherwise....

You don't start work til 10. What time do you go to bed?

 

[Sweetheart4]

You don't start work til 10. What time do you go to bed?

no he works 1 am - 1 or 2 pm the next day. I work 10-4 m-friend I usually go to bed when he leaves for work at midnight

 

[bleedinbrown58]

Don't you want her to find happiness?

Dilligaf?

 

[bleedinbrown58]

no he works 1 am - 1 or 2 pm the next day. I work 10-4 m-friend I usually go to bed when he leaves for work at midnight

Yeah I see you already changed your username....i'm convinced...you're not just looking for attention....riiiiight.

 

[Turdferguson]

Come on. This is a serious thread.
The poor woman needs some action.
Shame on all of you.

You are supposed to have answers.

I thought you would have better words of wisdom for her.

I was hoping you had a few more words for her.

I just feel bad for her. She is obviously in some deep pain.

Don't you want her to find happiness?

That's the spirit.

Your liquored up doing yard work in the sun again aren't you?

 

[Sweetheart4]

I didn't see you offer much in the way of advice, which is fine...but why is more expected of me? Or upschuck?

Brownslave and I called it like we saw....nothing more than an attention W* whining on the internet. She's in pain and needs real advice?? Well she's got Teamcare....find a therapist or a marriage counselor. I got nothing else to say.

First of all we are not married so My Obama care does not include therapy. Secondly, This is my last posting ...like I said just wanted to see what UPS people said about things since the divorce rate is extremely high in your corporation!

 

[upschuck]

at least I know every other month we will have more time together.

So, you like it when he gets off?








Sorry, had to.

 

[Turdferguson]

First of all we are not married so My Obama care does not include therapy. Secondly, This is my last posting ...like I said just wanted to see what UPS people said about things since the divorce rate is extremely high in your corporation!

Teamcare not obama care

 

[Brownslave688]

since the divorce rate is extremely high in your corporation!

We seem to have a thing for crazies.

 

[Brownslave688]

Hold on. Works 10-4 (part time) husband can't please her.

Mrs @IVE GOTTA PACKAGE 4U ?

 

[Sweetheart4]

Yeah I see you already changed your username....i'm convinced...you're not just looking for attention....riiiiight.

you got that right! just some ideas from the people who live the kind of life I am going to be a part of

 

[bleedinbrown58]

you got that right! just some ideas from the people who live the kind of life I am going to be a part of

Wut?? Are you unfamiliar with sarcasm?

 

[olroadbeech]

feeders has a very high divorce rate. life is full of compromises.

 

[sailfish]

i AM IN A WONDERFUL RELATIONSHIP WITH A GREAT MAN WHO WORKS FOR ups. IN THE PAST THREE YEARS HE HAS HAD VARIOUS SCHEDULES AND WE MANAGED TO WORK IT OUT.

SINCE LAST YEAR HE HAS BEEN IN FEEDERS AND IS NOW ON A 1AM TIL 1 PM SHIFT M-friend.

i AM HAVING A VERY DIFFICULT TIME HE IS NOT ....HE LOVES THIS SCHEDULE BUT ALL WE HAVE IS SATURDAY AFTERNOON AFTER HE WAKES AT 5 PM TIL SUNDAY NIGHT. i WORK A REGULAR JOB M-friend 10-4. HE SLEEPS ALL DAY AND WAKES AT 11:15PM. SHOWERS GRABS HIS LUNCH WHICH I MAKE FOR HIM AND LEAVES. BY 12:15 AM

I FEEL RESENTFUL THAT I MANAGE ALL THE HOME DUTIES AND COOKING AN CLEANING BECAUSE OF HIS TIME LIMITATIONS. THE TIME WE SHARE TOGETHER IS FUN AND WE DO ALOT OF THINGS IN THAT LIMITED TIME BUT, I FEEL DETACHED . I LOVE HIM TREMENDOUSLY AND WANT TO FIND SOME SOLUTION.

I DO HAVE FRIENDS AND FAMILY AND LOVE MY JOB I AM NOT NEEDY NOR AM I CO-DEPENDENT IT JUST SEEMS LIKE SOMETHING CAN BE DONE TO MAKE THIS WORK BETTER...ANY IDEAS???

THIS MAY HIS SCHEDULE FOR YEARS TO COME AND i AM WONDERING IF i WILL BE ABLE TO ENDURE IT. i DO NOT WANT THIS RELATIONSHIP TO END WHEN THE LOVE IS SO STRONG AND WE ARE SO COMPATIBLE...i WILL RETIRE IN 5 YEARS AND HE WILL RETIRE IN 15 YRS!!

ANY IDEAS PLEASE

Maybe's it's just part of his plan. A job that makes an ass load of money and gets him out of a relationship. I know I couldn't say no to that.

 

[FrigidAdCorrector]

That's the life of a truck driver. It isn't any easier if he worked somewhere else. Be thankful he can at least be home everyday.

 

[EvanStone]

I'll give you advice once you send me nudes.

 

[upschuck]

I'll give you advice once you send me nudes.

Does that count for everyone?

 

[EvanStone]

Does that count for everyone?

Yes.

 

[burrheadd]

Thank you so much. I dont have thin skin so Im ok. I never loved anyone more than him...I am not a whiny person at all. I am well loved by friends and family this is just something I put out there to get some advise from people who could understand the UPS life that he has dedicated 22 years to.

How hot of an Old gal are ya??