Because we can live anywhere. I am a MAN, and my first duty is to protect my family. You are saying you would be happy to see your wife and kids dead tomorrow. Why? So you can proudly say they died for some ideal?because I am not afraid. Risk is what it is. If you think long and hard about it, I bet you could be afraid of anything. Your turn. Why is your country not worth dying for.
If I lived in FEAR like you guys, as a MAN it would be my duty to get my family somewhere safe. For me, FAMILY comes before anything else. Country is just a piece of ground, and I think you could find another country that better fits your beliefs. Australia, GB, Canada...
I could respect a man who took care of his family by getting them out of harms way.