yes I did. And would you say the same thing to 6 kids and 20 grandchildren? They didn't do enough??????? No I am not the final judge, but I have seen the pain of those children, grandchildren, and wife. Actually it was my ex. And I stood with all his children and his wife, through the days and months after. 30 yrs after we divorced. I don't throw people away because they make a mistake. I forgive and move on with my life. I love them, they love me, and I am really pissed at him for what he has put them through. I have heard the agonizing heart wrenching crying over a man they kissed the ground he walked on. And it breaks my heart to see it. he had many problems, none of them caused by his family. If someone said something this uncaring to any of them, I would have to regroup, before I beat them to a pulp. Its no ones fault if someone wants to die. You are so wrong.